Update CoC mailing lists

[UlisesGascon]

As discussed (ref) we need to ensure that the emails (coc-escalation@lists.openjsf.org and express-coc@lists.openjsf.org) are updated (cc: @wesleytodd )

[bjohansebas]

Should i open an issue in the CPC for the coc-escalation@lists.openjsf.org email? I don't see it referenced in the COC of CPC

[wesleytodd]

I can do the admin work on these, I think the missing piece here is deciding how we want to manage the membership. Do we need to have a team on them? Is it the TC? Do we need to do something about the spam? That sort of stuff.